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Well If You Put It That Way!

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues, Self-Esteem, Work and Career Issues. 

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Being uncomfortable with our aggression can lead to justifying inaction even when we need to address a difficult situation.

Premature Quitting

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles, Public. 

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For some people, quitting comes too easily, too often, and applies to too many experiences in their lives.

Worrying

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles. 

Worrying - Richard B. Joelson, DSW

Anticipation as a form of preparedness…

Self-Care and the Care of Others

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles. 

Self Care and the Care of Others - Richard B. Joelson, DSW

I have noticed that many of the patients I have worked with in my practice seem to be more attentive to the needs of others than to their own.

More Thoughts About What Makes a Relationship Successful

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

More Thoughts on What Makes a Relationship Successful

When working with couples, I am continually struck by the absence of many basic ingredients of a successful partnership.

At the Mercy of the Other

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles, Relationships and Family Issues. 

At the Mercy of the Other - Richard B. Joelson, DSW

We often dread the real or imagined consequences of provoking emotional reactions in our partners…

Pride or Boasting

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Public, Published Articles. 

Pride or Boasting - Richard B. Joelson, DSW

What constitutes healthy pride, something one ought to be able to freely express, and boastfulness or bragging, something most people find objectionable?

Good Enough – Excellent – Perfect

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles, Public. 

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The emotional significance placed on these terms can promote or interfere with personal satisfaction and success.

“I’m Really Glad We Had This Talk”

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles. 

I'm Glad We Had This Talk

How can we feel better after an emotionally charged conversation instead of worse?

Complaining

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles. 

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Why do some people complain a great deal while others complain rarely, if ever?

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