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Relationships and Family Issues

Why do some relationship last forever and others fall apart? These articles offer ways that you can keep your relationship from becoming a casualty.

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“It doesn’t matter to me…”

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

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How a straightforward adjustment in attitude and expectation might help avoid negative interactions when two people need to make decisions…

What if and So What?

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Anxiety and Depression, Relationships and Family Issues. 

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Recently, a patient in my psychotherapy practice was reflecting on her experience in therapy after what she described as three productive years of treatment.

Erosion of Affection

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

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The phrase “death by a thousand cuts,” meaning major negative change which happens slowly and in many often unnoticed increments, is one way to understand relationship failure.

Well If You Put It That Way!

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues, Self-Esteem, Work and Career Issues. 

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Being uncomfortable with our aggression can lead to justifying inaction even when we need to address a difficult situation.

More Thoughts About What Makes a Relationship Successful

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

More Thoughts on What Makes a Relationship Successful

When working with couples, I am continually struck by the absence of many basic ingredients of a successful partnership.

At the Mercy of the Other

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Help Me!, Newsletter Articles, Relationships and Family Issues. 

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We often dread the real or imagined consequences of provoking emotional reactions in our partners…

The Problem with Anger

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Anger Issues, Relationships and Family Issues. 

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How can we use anger to strengthen communication and enhance our relationships?

5 Reasons People Stay in Unhappy Relationships

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

5 Reasons Couples Stay Together

There are many factors and forces at play in a failing relationship where one, or both, partners would prefer to be apart, but cannot or will not bring themselves to separate.

Married Bachelors – Married Bachelorettes

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Public, Relationships and Family Issues. 

Married Batchelors - Married Batchelorettes

How might a person, married to someone they love and with whom they are happy, be unhappy being married?  And how can they successfully address it?

Silence in a Relationship

by Richard B. Joelson, DSW.  Category: Relationships and Family Issues. 

Silent Couple on Bench

Unfortunately and too often, the proverbial “awkward silence” is interpreted as a sign of trouble in an ongoing relationship or a sign of social anxiety or social ineptitude in more casual relationships—however these interpretations might not always be accurate.

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